Leave it to me to be presumptuous enough to amend principles of a millenniums-old faith.
But that’s how I roll.
I always think it better to phrase things in the positive rather than the negative, if possible. It’s proven scientifically, as well as by common sense, that the brain understands things phrased positively much better than something negative. Compare: We deny the negation of the prohibition of the refusal to stop avoiding tantrums. Am I for tantrums or against them? Am I for good behavior or against it? And if you think I’m exaggerating, you obviously don’t read much news of higher court decisions or legislation. It sounds just like that.
Whereas if I am all for the promotion of the development of the increase in establishing protections of human rights, you know exactly my opinion, no matter how many positive things I string together.
Watch parents and kids at the park. A kid’s on the monkey bars, struggling. If the parent yells, “Don’t fall!” the kid has to understand falling, then abstractly negate it. Often, they fall. If the parent yells, “Hang on!” the kid knows instantly exactly what’s being directed, and often is able to hang on.
Humans do things. We don’t not do things.
The way to quit a bad habit is not to obsess over not doing it. You replace it with a better habit, and focus on that.
Water only the seeds you want to grow, and the rest dies naturally.
That’s a Buddhist principle, by the way.
So really, my audacity in changing the Five Precepts is merely my applying Buddhist thought to Buddhist thought, and see where it takes me. Buddhism encourages experimentation, after all.
Here are the Five Precepts as written in Jack Kornfield’s A Path With Heart:
- I undertake to refrain from killing and harming living beings.
- I undertake to refrain from stealing and taking that which is not mine.
- I undertake to refrain from causing harm through sexual misconduct.
- I undertake to refrain from false speech, harmful speech, gossip, and slander.
- I undertake to refrain from the misuse of intoxicants or substances such as alcohol or drugs that cause carelessness or loss of awareness.
I agree wholeheartedly with all of those. But I think if we phrase them positively, then read and meditate on them regularly, all the negative stuff will be contained therein, but we won’t have to have it in our faces all the time. I know very well that I should not stab my dog with a butcher knife, and I don’t need to bring that truth to mind constantly. If I focus instead on nurturing and nourishing my dog, the avoidance of butcher knives will naturally occur.
Here is my working list of Sunny Side Precepts:
- Cherish all life.
- Love shares joyfully.
- Cultivate healthy intimacy.
- Cultivate silence; if necessary, speak truth.
- Cultivate clear awareness.
The same alterations might appropriately be made to the ten commandments.